Think This, Not That

Updated: Jul 23

Don't think this:

I can't do this thing called ministry. I'm not a good pastor's wife or a good partner for my husband.


Think this:

I am not adequate, but God has given me the Holy Spirit, who empowers me and makes me adequate for what God calls me to do.


Not that we are sufficient of ourselves to think of anything as being from ourselves, but our sufficiency (competency, adequacy) is from God, who also made us sufficient as ministers of the new covenant.

2 Corinthians 3:5-6



Don't think this:

I am alone. No one understands or can relate to my life as a pastor's wife.


Think this:

I never walk alone. And the One who walks with me understands sacrifice and service way more than I do.


Let your conduct be without covetousness [of other people's lives]; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, "I will never leave you nor forsake you."

Hebrews 13:5


The heart knows its own bitterness. And a stranger does not share its joy.

Proverbs 14:10


Don't think this:

I am not making an impact. My ministry is not significant.


Think this:

I can't always see the impact of what I'm doing, and this is often a very good thing. But just because I can't see it doesn't mean God isn't currently watering the seeds I've sown. Results aren't my responsibility, but faith is my success!


But now God has set the members, each one of them, in the body just as He pleased.

1 Corinthians 12:18


For God is not unjust to forget your work and labor of love which you have shown toward His name, that you have ministered to the saints, and do minister.

Hebrews 6:10


And let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.

Galatians 6:9


Don't think this:

I am a disappointment to other people, or my husband has disappointed people, and I am crushed and paralyzed because of it.


Think this:

My goal is to please God. If I am being faithful with what He's given me, I am pleasing to Him.


Let us lay aside every weight, and the sin [of people-pleasing] which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the [specific] race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus....who for the joy set before Him endured the cross.

Hebrews 12:1-2


For do I now persuade men, or God? Or do I seek to please men? For if I still pleased men, I would not be a bondservant of Christ.

Galatians 1:10


Don't think this:

I should be doing more. (said while breaking out the checklist of the perfect pastor's wife)


Think this:

My job is to abide in Christ and follow His leading, not to set my own agenda or play some role I think I should play.


I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing.

John 15:5


Don't think this:

This is too hard. I want to quit.


Think this:

Because of the mercy and grace of Christ, I can endure. And there is reward for enduring!


Therefore, since we have this ministry [through the power of the Holy Spirit], as we have received mercy, we do not lose heart.